The Program: Solutions
You don't meet any men
So, you're not meeting any men. Why not? If this is where
you are, the first thing you need to do is PUT DOWN
THE MOUSE! Get off the computer. You don't need this
website, you need a life!
Meeting men isn't difficult. Meeting quality men? Yes. Meeting
Okay, I'm going to take a breath now. Normally I couldn't get
away with saying what I just said, but if you're reading this,
you're sitting at your computer. You've probably heard the phrase,
"It will happen when you're not looking for it." Think
about the people who use the phrase. They're almost entirely women
right? In our society, ON AVERAGE (standard disclaimer, now quit
bothering me), women are passive and men are active in looking
If you're at this stage, sit down and take a breath. You need to
forget that piece of glurge and make the decision to take some
control in your life.
Your first goal is to get out and do something. Almost anything.
Spend two hours a day outside doing something somewhat physical.
Without the laptop, cell phone, pager, whatever. Take a walk to
the local park, take up jogging, go to the beach, play softball
with some friends. Something. Anything. Whatever gets you out of
your home or office.
Your second goal is to find something that makes you different,
that you can use and that you enjoy even if it doesn't get you
Third is to just practice being social. Smile at people. Say
"hi" to nice looking men on the street. It doesn't
matter what you do as long as you're practicing.
Send me your ideas for things
that you find have helped.